Getting Over the Indiscretion of a Partner

by Arthur Goldberry

Relationship is not always a bed of roses; there are thorns along the way. One reason resulting to a strained relationship is the unfaithfulness of a partner. Unfaithfulness is very hard to accept and doubly difficult to recover from.

The infidelity issue need not result to a total break in a relationship. You must be very determined to resolve the conflict. In order to bounce back from an infidelity issue, you must be willing to try to resolve the issue.

The desire to settle differences should be a mutual effort and commitment, and should not be left to the initiative and resolve of one partner alone. It is advisable to observe a cooling off period before taking any steps in reconciliation. Both people in a relationship need to spend time alone and think the matter through. You must be able to think clearly when on the road to recovery. You should be ready and allow some time for the healing period.

Do not delude yourself that you can forget and start anew in just a few days. You will be deceiving yourself if you think you can patch up things that easy and start things going again. When you have cooled off and calmed down, then it is time to sit down and have a serious talk. Try to review the events that caused the unfortunate incident. Why it happened, and what is to be done to prevent it from happening again?

Deal only with your partner. Do not complicate matters by dragging the third party or any third party for that matter into the discussion. Even though it takes two to tango, there's no reason to drag the other person into it. It is your partner you have to talk to and discuss the whys and the reasons behind it. Make a clean breast of your hurt and disappointment after what happened. It wasn't easy on you to find out about the infidelity your partner was involved in. Your partner must fully understand your misery and sentiments about the incident. If you feel the relationship is worth it, don't be afraid to get some professional counseling. A counselor should be able to help you settle the issue and soothe out ruffled feelings and show the way to the reconciliation process. No situation is the same and each requires different approaches and the professional counselor should be able to give you the correct advice.

You should be able to salvage your relationship if both of you are sincere and committed to work out your differences. Recovery will come a little faster for both partners if they're willing to talk out their feelings and thoughts and work through them together as a team.



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