The Truth About Why Your Boyfriend Left You

by Katherine M Paris

Are you sure you know the real reason why your man left you? Sure, he might have given you some sort of excuse but the real reason is something more elusive. The real reason why your ex left you has nothing to do with another woman or the arguement that you had or anything that came from his lips. The cool thing is that the real reason why he broke up with you is something that you can remedy quite easily once the secret is revealed to you.

Even though you might say that your boyfriend or husband is extremely intelligent, he is still a man. Being a man means that even if he is enlightened and considers himself in touch with his feelings, he still make all of his decisions based upon his emotions. He might appear very logical in his thinking and problem solving but that's the real problem with men. He might think that he is being very logical and deductive in his reasoning and decision making but underneath that facade are emotions that are running the entire show.

What a guy does is a bit of a mystery to most women. They often will tell you that they have weighed the pros and cons of a particular situation and come up with a solution for the problem at hand but all they are doing is coming up with reason why they feel the way they do. They justify acting on their emotions by coming up with logical reasons why they do what they do. They have been taught from the time they were little boys that they shouldn't have feelings, they shouldn't cry or be emotional so they learn to cover up these feelings with logic.

The real reason why your boyfriend or husband left you is because of how he felt about you and how he felt about himself when he was with you. Somewhere along the way your relationship got off track. It might have happened in a moment when you did something that caused him to lose respect for you or it could have happened over an extended period of time as your relationship fell into a rut and began declining. You may have even noticed this and tried to do something about it. You may have tried to save your relationship but in the process you only made it worse. In the process he lost even more respect for you and he felt even worse being in the relationship with you that made him feel like less of a man.

The secret to winning him back is in changing his perception of you. You need to regain his respect while, at the same time, make him feel wonderful when he is around you. These are similar to the techniques that other women use to steal a guy that is in a relationship already away from another woman. You don't have to be strikingly beautiful and you don't have to shower him with compliments. You just have to make him see you as the one that makes him feel like a man while adding to your value as a person, as his best friend and as a woman.

At the moment it might be difficult to make him change how he thinks of you. If he has lost a lot of respect for you since the breakup because you have been pushing to get back together, it might take a little time to change that image in his head that he has. Often, taking a short break from talking with him and contacting him is necessary. A little time and start to make him forget about some of the damage you may have done since your breakup. This time will also give you the opportunity to get your life in order and regain your self confidence. It may be difficult at first but focusing on your long term goal and understanding how male psychology works can ensure that you rebuild that connection and devotion that you want from him the right way and have him back in your loving arms again in short order.



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