Show Some Tenderness To Effectively Win Your Ex Back

by Matt Knox

Sometimes, a little tenderness is what you need to win back your ex. This is appropriate most especially when the relationship you had ended drastically. Like you break up after a lot of screaming, name calling and finger pointing to put the blame to one another. When a relationship goes down the pit, feelings and emotions usually go through a lot of damage. If one of you had actually cheated the other, the feeling of humiliation and abandonment is also present. Or maybe some disaster occurred that somehow triggered the two of you to drift further and further apart. Whatever brings about the break up, possibilities are, both of you are suffering. Wounds like these can be serious and slow to mend and if you want to get your ex back you will have to take the kind and gentle approach to heal those wounds.

Situations such as this requires you to consider each other's feelings. Maybe something about you or the way you deal with things must be changed. Usually there are things about us that need changing that we are not aware of. There are specific cases when we can use of a little improvement. Or maybe your ex have a personal problem which you are not really aware of. This issue might have triggered your ex to feel weak and to act a little different.

Why not consider the idea of looking for helpful advice on relationship before you continue with your plan of getting your ex back? You can ask your closest friends or better yet, you seek professional help. It's a good way to know if there's something that you need to change about yourself before you try to win your ex back. And if there's anything that you must try to improve about yourself. Ask them to be truthful with you. No matter what you'll hear from them, take it with an open mind and take it as a constructive criticism. Sometimes, accepting that you are wrong about some things is difficult but if you only learn to do it, you'll be more sensitive towards others.

Don't minimize what your loved one is experiencing and going through. You are going through the same situation, you are both feeling the same pain. So try to be tender and understanding with them. Do not be angry, it'll only lead you, two, into a fight. Instead of obtaining what you wanted to achieve, it will only bring you the contrary. You must try to admit the reality that the problems that brought on your break up can not be possibly fixed overnight. Take one step at a time. Give them and yourself the time and space you need to work through this. A tender touch can heal on levels that a physical touch can never penetrate.

Give your loved on the strength he/she needed, assist them. Love, real love, needs us to concentrate more on the well being of the other, rather than on ourselves. Being tender is something that is easy to learn, even if you're not that type by characteristics. You can actually take its benefit in winning back your ex.

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