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3 Things You Should Never Do If You Wanted to Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back

by Stewart Christian

I know that you want to get your ex girlfriend back after the breakup. If that's not the case then you shouldn't be reading this article. If a man still loves his ex girlfriend, chances are, he'll do everything to win her back but the real question is, is he doing it the right way? So, before talking about the right way to get what you want, I want you to ask yourself first - Have you ever done any of these things before?

- Give your ex girlfriend a call every hour or so to let her know that she's the reason why you are hurting so much.

- Call her family and her closest friends to convince them to take your side.

- Give her a call or drop by her place just to tell her that you are still madly in love with her.

If you have tried any of the methods mentioned above then you probably know by now that those actions doesn't really work. As a matter of fact, you are even making her hate you all the more by doing such actions.

You must do the right thing to get her back. It is not difficult at all. The secret in winning an ex girlfriend back is by doing the exact opposite of the actions mentioned above.

You should start by asking yourself why she broke up with you in the very first place. Were there any problems in your relationship? Financial problem may be? Did you cheat on her? Or did she fell in love with some other guy? This should be the first thing you need to find out if you want to get your girlfriend back after the breakup. When you know the reason of the break up, then you will be able to find the right way to take care of that problem and make sure that it will not happen again.

If you have done those 3 actions mentioned above then you should have known by now that they are not working and you should, therefore, stop doing it right away. You should never show her how desperate you are to win her back, that's not going to work. Put it this way. Do you want to have a lifetime partner that's not only weak but also desperate? I doubt it and your girlfriend doesn't either.

In addition, you need to try to move on with your life. Let her see that you're okay with the break up and all. Easier said than done, I know, but you should really try. You need to show her that you can continue living your life without her.

You may disagree with me. But as I've said, your girlfriend doesn't need a boyfriend who is weak and who appears to be desperate. Show her the opposite, show her how strong and confident you are. Besides, if you really want to get your girlfriend back after the break up, then it is very important that you need to get over the pain from the break up and try to be yourself first.

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