What To Do With An Unfaithful Partner

by Christy Hoyle

History is replete of betrayals in a romantic relationship. Unfaithfulness seems to be a major problem in many relationships in today's society, as it has always been in the history of romance.

The first step any couple must take in recovering from infidelity is to determine if the relationship should be or can be salvaged. There are seven questions below that will shed more light on how the relationship stands and its chances of surviving.

Have you faced this problem before, or only now? In other words, has the unfaithful partner shown patterns of infidelity or unfaithful behaviors in the past, or is this disloyalty a one-time thing?

When confronted, does your spouse spout innocence or admit the wrongdoing?

Are they fully aware of their act and the pain and anguish that they have inflicted on you? Are they even aware of the damage done to your relationship?

Are they truly repentant for what they have done, and not because they were not careful enough?

Does your mate acknowledge their indiscretion and would go to great lengths to make up for it? Are they being dismissive and urge you to just forget it? Will they be agreeable to less space to regain your trust and confidence?

Take a closer look at your partner and try to recall if he had shown the same callousness before or if it is the first time. Do they really care about how you feel or about your well being?

Is infidelity a part of their legacy? Did they grow up like this, or is this new behavior for them that is not present in their past, including family and past relationships?

These are the facts that will give you an insight into the preservation and future of your relationship. Be honest with the questions and the answers and resist the temptation to make justifications. If you cannot make a detached appraisal of the situation, do not hesitate to let others help you. The biggest decision for you to make in the road ahead, is whether or not you should try to save your relationship.

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