Can A Separation Save Marriage?

by Trinia Poloan

Deciding to separate from your spouse might be a last resort for most people involved in a relationship. Once a marriage becomes this difficult there are usually many other issues that have to be confronted before the relationship can be considered fixed. Can separation save marriage? Only if both parties will put their time and effort into it.

Each partner in the relationship must agree that they will not date anyone else during the time they spend apart. If this can not be agreed upon, then divorce is most likely in this case. The time spent apart from each other during the separation should be used to reflect on the marriage and to remember what drew you to your partner in the first place.

In some cases, the husband or wife may not agree with their spouse to be separated. If one party in the marriage leaves without the consent or permission of the other, this can cause even more troubles with the relationship. It is usually better to have complete agreement between both parties in the marriage before deciding to separate. It's also a good idea to define the length of the separation including what types of visits are allowed.

If children are involved, separation may not be the easiest solution to fix the relationship. The children must be informed of the decision to separate and it will most likely cause them anxiety and stress if they do not understand the reasons for one parent moving out of the home. Counselors can be provided for the children in this type of situation, and it should be considered very carefully before involving children.

A time apart can lead to an awakening for one or both spouses. Losing the person who has been beside you day after day for all of your relationship can sometimes show you exactly what you would be missing if they were away permanently. In the best situation, a small separation allows the partners to remember how much they love their spouse and how much the other person means to them.

In conclusion, can separation save marriage? It can have both good and bad effects on both the people involved and the relationship itself. Consider very carefully before deciding to spend time living separately from your spouse. It's always possible that there could be a better way to save your marriage.

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