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Tell Tale Signs Your Relationship Is Over

by Daniel D Dalton

Break-up is already hard as it is. But discerning if goodbye is forever or not is even harder.

Relationships may or may not survive. A lot of these ends for many different reasons. But one thing certain, for the party who does not want the relationship to end, the feelings are the same: hurt, desperation, panic, emptiness, a knot in the stomach, and any other emotions that a person does not want to feel.

Who's to Blame?

When couples broke-up, the best manner to determine if it is for good is through the party who made the decision to split up. The succeeding paragraphs present varied situations, each will tell you how to know when goodbye is really goodbye.

If your ex walked out from your relationship because he or she was fed up with a particular behavior or attitude that you already discussed several times before, it means that your partner sincerely loves and cares for you but the time has come when things are just too much for the person to handle.

Your ex desires to attract your attention and hope to get a positive feedback from you. If only you act according to what is implied, and that you are ready to change your ways, you ought to be reassured that your former partner will not stay long as your ex.

Reading the Signs upon Reaching Dead End

On the other hand, if the other party just walks away and is not interested or willing to settle things, ignores the idea of attending counseling sessions or classes to save the relationship, does not read books on how to strengthen relationships, then you have to accept that your partner has made up his or her mind and considers your relationship really over.

This type of walker already made plans on embarking on another chapter of his or her life with somebody else or may already found someone new. This person may be planning his or her exit strategy for quite some time already for he or she felt trapped within your relationship or has fallen out of love with you. Usually, on a case such as this, the walker disregards any hopes or chances of saving the relationship for the person wants nothing but to be out of the relationship.

Akin to anything else, somehow relationship ends if it is not meant to last. Whether there will be a second chance or a continuation of the story depends on the couple. However, if you are in the same situation wherein your partner shows similar characteristics with the latter of the above two situations, there is nothing much you can do but accept that it is really over.



Dying to get your ex back? Daniel D. Dalton is a relationship expert dealing with breakup and broken relationships. Visit Win-Your-Ex.com for advice about questions like <a href="http://www.win-your-ex.com">my ex wants to be friends </a> and help you answer <a href="http://win-your-ex.com/should-i-call-my-ex">when to call my ex </a>?

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