Will You Get Your Ex Back?

by Maria Babenko

Are you afraid that you'll never be reunited with your ex? Are you sure that your relationship is over and you feel real pain in your heart because you love your ex so much. You love your ex but you are sure that it's only a matter of time before you have your heart broken further when you find out that they have moved on and found someone new. Maybe there is even someone else in their life already and you dread the thought of your ex with someone else. You see no use in trying to win them over and you are almost resigned to give up yourself but still you wish there was a way to convince them to come back to you.

Getting your ex back really isn't as difficult as you are making it seem in your mind. Winning your ex back is possible and people do get back together all the time. The problem for you, right now, is that you are focusing on the negative and having a difficult time seeing the possibilities. You are bummed out and you have been hurt so you focus on the negative so you aren't disappointed again. You don't want to be let down again and you fear that there is nothing but more rejection in store for you if you continue down this path.

These fears and doubts are really what is standing in your way of getting your ex back. You are your own worst enemy. Maybe you tried to talk your ex into coming back to you and you were rejected. As a result, you probably have a very negative attitude and you are feeling like your doomed even before you say or do a thing. You already know that you're going to fail so you don't try all that hard. This way you won't be disappointed. In addition, you won't get your ex back and everything plays out exactly as you expected. You probably can't even bring yourself to think or dream about what it might really be like to get back together with your ex because you think that it's just impossible.

The truth is that getting back together with your ex isn't all that difficult and it is actually your best option right now when it comes to a relationship. While everyone is telling you that you should move on and that you'll find someone else that is even better than your ex, have you talked to any of your friends that date? What kind of success are they finding? How wonderful is the dating pool and are they meeting people that fall in love with them immediately or is there a lot of rejection and just very strange people out there looking for someone to date?

You know your ex. You know what you're getting into. Your chances of having a successful relationship with your ex is much higher if you understand the problems that you had, know what to do to make things better and are able to rekindle the love that you once had. Your chances of finding lifelong happiness with your ex are simply much higher than finding someone else out there that is going to be perfect for you. Even then, what are the chances that this perfect person will feel the same way about you and fall in love with you also?

This brings another point to light. You might think that your ex doesn't love you anymore or that they never loved you in the first place. Your ex might have even told you these words and I know that they hurt your heart like a knife. But the truth is that your ex does still love you. Love never really goes away. Love never dies. Sure, it can be covered by other emotions but if you ever knew at any point in your relationship that your ex loved you then that love is still sitting there waiting for you. Don't you want to go and uncover that love and claim it for yourself again?

Try not to let your mind get overwhelmed by what you might think is going to be a long journey back. Try not to think that it's going to take years to fix your relationship. Often things can change in a very short period of time. Sometimes couples get back together after a single meaningful conversation. You must be persistent and you must not give up hope. After all, what lies ahead for you will make both you and your ex happier than you have ever been. There really is nothing more emotionally moving than a couple reuniting and I'm sure that it won't take much effort to get you to agree that having your ex hold your hand for the first time is going to be like a gift from heaven. The prize for your patience and persistence will far outweigh any struggles that you might have to go through to win your ex back.



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