How Many Years Will It Take To Win Your Boyfriend Back?

by Kay Toddingtone

Waiting and being patient is highly over-rated. Those that tell you that you should just wait for your ex-boyfriend to come back to you probably have some memory loss and forget what it's like to try to wait for an ex to come back to them. If you had some hope though or some sort of sign that things were going to work out, the waiting probably wouldn't be so much of a problem. You know in your heart that what you had was real and you're sure that given some time you can get him back but you want to know for sure. You want to know what's going through his head and where you stand right now.

You understand that if you hound him and try talking about the breakup and getting back together you will spook him. You know that nothing good will come of trying to convince him to come back to you and that you'll only push him away by chasing after him. Still, the days pass and at times you fear the worse. You know that in time he will either come back to you or he will find someone new. With every passing day the chances of some other woman catching his eye grow. What should you do? You really don't have many choices at the moment, do you?

You don't want to be patient and you don't want to wait even though you know in your heart that you must. You can wait for many things and wish that life would teach you patience with something that isn't quite as important as the relationship with the one that you love. It's a double edged sword. You feel that if you wait too long you run the chance that he will move on with his life and find someone new. Yet, you know that if you pursue him or try to do anything that he might view as being pushy and you'll be signing your own death warrent and push him into the arms of someone new. It really is enough to drive you mad.

Instead, try focusing on yourself for at least one week. Do things that are going to make you happy and help you to not only pass the time but to rebuild your self-esteem? Time will pass more quickly if you are doing something other than trying to figure out how to get him back. Of course, he will always be in the back of your mind but replace those thoughts with memories of how things were when you were together and what things are going to be like when you are back together.

Keep yourself busy doing the things that will improve your mood and your attitude. Buy yourself a gift as a way of showing that you really do appreciate yourself and value yourself. Spend some time relaxing and not worrying about when he is going to come back to you or how you're going to get him back. Think only of yourself and your happiness. Rent some funny movies and let yourself laugh. Laughter can be very healing. Overall, what you're trying to do is improve your mood and your outlook on life. People who are happy and are optimistic are much more attractive to everyone when compared to those that are sad and depressed all the time. You will find that your boyfriend will also find you more attractive if you have a positive attitude and if you are smiling. Going for sympathy from your boyfriend just doesn't work and men tend not to be attracted to women with a lot of drama or negative emotions in general in their life.

Understanding what a man needs to feel attraction as well as how you can play off of these needs and desires is crucial to actually winning him over. This isn't some form of trickery. This is just basic psychology and how relationships often work. Knowing that you can get him back and understanding how you will get him back will shorten the amount of time it's going to take to bring him around and the sooner you start feeling better about yourself the happier you will be for all the right reasons.



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