Get Him Back - Want To Know If He Is Thinking Of Getting Back Together?

by Eric Hastings

Have you lost hope and feel that your ex just doesn't care? Are you about to give up on ever getting him back? Find out if he still loves you and if you have a chance of getting him back!

You are trying with everything that you have to get him back. Your boyfriend or your husband has left you and you would stand on your head and spit wooden nickels if you thought that it would improve your chances to get him back. Now, don't go trying that. It rarely works and seldom is a man really impressed by the girl who can spit wooden nickels! But there are things that you can do and ways of knowing if your ex is interested in getting back together. Keep an eye out for these telltale signs that your ex is coming around and be prepared at all times for the knock on the door and the moment that he will want to talk about getting back together.

You might have a hard time normally telling what is going through a man's mind but in the light of your breakup, your ex is going to be even more difficult to read. He is probably defensive and trying to see through that stone wall that he has built around himself will make it nearly impossible for you to tell if he is becoming interested in your again or if he is thinking about getting back together. Keep all of this in mind as you interact with him and remain cool and calm in all your dealings with him. Anything that you do to try to get him back will be suspect and confronting him or cornering him could set you back weeks in your attempt to get him back.

Your Friends - Be mindful of your friends and family. If your ex has been in touch with your friends or family they might not tell you right away but at some point they might mention that they ran into your ex or that they heard from him. Your close friends and family don't want to see you get hurt again so they might keep this information to themselves. Usually though, someone will let something slip or someone will feel that it is the right thing to do to tell you that your ex has been in touch with them.

Often, a guy will start to sniff around by arranging to bump into mutual friends or family or he will just call someone you know to try to get information on you. Your ex might say that he was doing this just because he was concerned about you and he might even ask them not to tell you that he was asking about you. This is a huge clue that your ex is becoming more interested in you and that you have a very good chance to get him back. Although he might say that his motives are to just check on you or make sure that you're alright, his true motive is to feel out your friends and family to see if you are upset, angry or if you have moved on, perhaps even to another relationship. Keep your cool and you might have a chance at getting him back.

It's All In His Eyes - If you do bump into your ex pay close attention to his eyes. Does he seem to light up when he sees you? At first he might be embarrassed or feel awkward talking with you but if you focus on his eyes you will know everything that you need to know about whether he is thinking of you and if you have a chance at getting him back. The eyes don't lie and it is terribly difficult for him to his his feelings if you remain friendly, act happy to see him and try to make eye contact with him sporadically while you're talking with him.

If your ex appears distracted, nervous or even angry when you see him, do not fret. Remain upbeat, positive and appear genuinely happy to see him. It could be that he simply believes that he has to be upset with you since you are his ex. He might be defending himself and be expecting you to be angry or for you to be pushy about getting back together. Even if he remains angry throughout your conversation, show that you're the better person and let him make a fool out of himself. He will come around and realize that he was being childish soon enough.

The ultimate clue that your ex is still interested in you or that he is beginning to miss you will come to you in the form of a phone call or text message. Actually picking up the phone and calling you has to be one of the gutsiest things that your ex will ever do, and this should be a sure sign to you that a reunion is imminent. He might make up some sort of excuse for why he is calling or texting but the underlying reason is that he misses you and still cares about you. In spite of the breakup and all the terrible things that were said, you are still in his heart.

While you might wish to call a friend and tell them that he called and that you think he's coming back to you, resist this urge. While this and all the other signs that we talked about are very positive indicators that he does still love you and that he is thinking about you, your success in actually getting him back depends a lot on how you play things from here on out. Throwing your arms around him and telling him that you love him or asking him if all of this means that you're going to be getting back together will demolish your chances. So be careful!

As much as you might hate playing games, getting your ex back is very much a game. The time for truth will come for you once you do get him back, OK? You can hate the game or feel horrible about being so sneaky and think that truthfulness is the way to go but with your relationship dynamic being so out of whack, game playing is just a necessity right now. Keeping your motives to yourself and knowing what to do and what to say to get him back is just a fact of life when it comes to matters of the heart sometimes.

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