Are You Sure You Want To Win Him Back

by Alexandra Peterson

Are you trying to win him back? Are you sure that you're all in and ready willing and prepared to get your boyfriend back? It's going to be a bumpy ride full of ups and downs but in the end, do you have what it takes to stay the course and do what is necessary to get your ex back? Have you been struggling with all of this and you just feel like giving up at times? Are you happy and sure of yourself one minute and then driven to tears the next because the reality of being broken up come crawling back into your mind?

No matter what has happened or what caused your breakup, the reality is that your reality can be whatever you decide you want it to be. If you want to doubt that you can win him back then that is your choice. But, if you want to feel wonderful and be positive in your heart that he is going to come back to you then that can be your reality also. Just think about that any time you feel those doubts coming. Push them back with your chosen reality and know that good things can happen to you.

Sometimes we try to protect our heart by trying not to get our hopes up. We feel that if we don't try then we won't be disappointed. If we just move on then there is no chance of us getting hurt again. The reality of the breakup might be seen as too big for you to believe that it can be overcome but no matter what happened, you can and will get him back if you want to. If he left you for another woman or if he appears to have moved on, that is only your perception of reality. The truth is that this relationship with the other woman will probably dissolve all on its own anyhow. But still, you need to be ready for when your time to start talking to him again comes. You're still going to have to do something in order to draw him near and make him want to overcome those obstacles to get back to you again.

It is time for you to shine. It is time for you to get your act together if it is your intention to win him back. Sitting in your house crying isn't going to get you anywhere. You have all this time now to plan things out and to learn more about your man so when the opportunity presents itself for you to actually get him back, you will be ready. It is time to learn about male psychology, how your ex thinks and how guys work in a relationship. You might never have this opportunity again and it could be tomorrow or next week when he comes knocking at your door or calls you for some lame reason. You want to be prepared for this opportunity to win him back.

Just think of it like this. What if you knew for sure that he was coming to your house at 8 o'clock. Would you want him to find you sitting there in your bathrobe with no makeup on while you gorge yourself on a roll of chocolate chip cookie dough with a fork? Wouldn't you think that it would improve your chances of getting him back if he arrived after you had lost five or ten pound and you were looking killer in some new outfit that you just picked up? This is the type of attitude that you need if you really want to win him back.

You need to live in ever present expectation for that moment when he walks back into your life. You him to be yours and you want to be able to see it in his eyes. There's no telling when that moment will come but you can bank on it that it is coming. This whole thing isn't over by a long shot and if you are prepared and you understand the how and why your ex not only broke up with you but what it's going to take to get him back then your odds of getting him back are almost one hundred percent... as long as you have the guts to follow through and do the right things and not fall apart and beg him to take you back again.

Dream about this moment. Know in your mind already, starting tonight, exactly how you want things to happen when he comes back to you. Experience it with every part of your body and make it as real as possible. Feel the sensations in your body as you know for sure and without a doubt that everything is going to fall into place and how it will feel to have him hold you again. Don't let anyone or anything kill this dream. Protect it, nurture it and live the dream that you can get him back after all.



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