Six Easy Steps To Fantastic Dating

by Kristin Lewis

If your last attempt at dating was significantly less successful than you wanted, you may be reading this article looking for help. Try to keep in mind that it doesn't mean dating is impossible for you. All you need to do is follow the steps below to succeed the next time around.

Successful dating is like any other activity, task or sport. You need to study what works and what doesn't. There is tons of information out there in the form of books, podcasts and videos. Places like Amazon, Barnes and Noble and other online vendors sell e-books about the topic; as well, there's lots of information available via search engine listings.

Think about getting some <a href="http://mybreakuptomakeup.com/blog/for-broken-hearts/knowing-how-to-get-over-a-breakup-and-become-a-better-person">professional guidance</a> while you build up your confidence levels. Life coaches are fantastic to talk to, and they also can offer some tangible techniques you can use in order to get up and running. Check out groups where people are looking to date. You might want to try and join groups doing activities you like through a place like Meetup.org. If you find a group you like and start attending, you'll find people who have similar tastes, and if you ask someone out, they are already friendly acquaintances. Another thing to try is speed dating. It's a numbers game, so you can go through a lot of quick dates to see if there's someone you may want to follow up with.

The next suggestion can be a little tricky You might mention it casually to friends and family that you're dating, because you want their support. Try not to sound desperate, because your loved ones will feel the need to fix you up. If you come across as confident, your family and friends will suggest people who might fit your personality instead of just trying to fix you up with anybody. They won't be pushy about things trying to make you happier. They'll respect your boundaries.

Believe it or not, if you set a goal for dating and a deadline, you'll have better results. It takes dreams and converts them into actions. Dating is just the same as anything else you learn to do. Let the universe know you're committed to the process and its success, and it will keep you motivated. You'll notice more people, make more moves in the right direction and be receptive to incoming offers.

By projecting a confident air, you let others know you're in the dating game. Setting a deadline for success means that you'll remain focused on getting things done; if you miss the deadline, simply reset it and try again. Without a goal to shoot for, you can spend years dreaming about going out on that successful date without taking any action to make it a reality.

Make plans for what you might want to do on your date, and make a schedule of when and how you want things to happen. Once you've gotten this organized and worked out, you can simply put it aside and go on about your life. Let your subconscious mind sort things out and get to work making things a reality. Whether you're paying attention or not, sleep or awake and even if you're mind is wandering, it's still chugging away at the subconscious level making your wishes tangible.

Don't dwell on the past. If you were unsuccessful on previous dates, leave it in the past. You're attempting a new approach, and that nervous feeling in your stomach is a good thing. Keep in mind that your date probably has that same knot in their stomach as well. When you're successful at dating, it's a wonderful feeling. Like sales, dating is a numbers game. Having goals set, deadlines in place and a plan to work with, all you have to do is go out and have some fun with it. You'll be very surprised at how fast your dreams become reality.



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